So we’ve made it to February, which is usually the time when folks have either fallen off the New Year’s resolution wagon or take a step back to assess how they are doing.
I am happy to report that I am doing great! OK, it might have something to do with the fact that I don’t really do resolutions. My theory is that I suffer enough. So, while I’m raising small kiddos, I get a resolution “free pass”. Do we mamas really need extra stress and self induced pressure?
I get that everyone wants to be healthy and lose a few pounds. I’ve got a postcard on our fridge that has an illustration of a goddess woman, with the words “Can you pinch an inch? Do you give a shit?” It’s just a reminder that maybe mamas need to cut ourselves a bit of slack – a few pounds and an extra inch or two is a small price to pay for getting to grow humans in our bodies.
Rather than putting pressure on myself this year, I am relieving myself of it. I have two examples:
1) My photo dilemma: I had five years worth of unprinted photos hanging around my neck like an albatross. I finally admitted that there was no time in the foreseeable future that I could dedicate to this project, and it was only getting bigger with each photo taken. A quick Facebook status update asking if anyone was up for a project put an end to my photo woes. Project has now been completely outsourced. The weight that has been lifted from my shoulders is indescribable.
2) The next outsource came in the shape of a teenaged homework helper who has a 95% average in French Immersion. My son’s FI was causing me an incredible amount of stress. My lack of French rendered me useless – throw in the fact that I don’t really get Gr. 5 Science either and I was a complete waste of space. Now, three times a week my angel teenager relieves me of that aggravation. My son does well on his homework, understands the material and I am no longer pulling my hair out every evening.
Outsourcing these little projects certainly ends up costing a mama a few bucks, but I am a strong believer that at whatever cost, you can’t put a price on mama’s sanity!
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Outsourcing sure would have helped a lot in college! (Too bad it was ethically frowned upon.) Mamas have EVERY right to outsource!
Julie – Well written! I remember after I had my 4th I told myself – don’t you ever criticize your body, look at those beautiful kids… so worth it! Of course, she’s almost 4 and as I pinched an inch last night that thought popped back into my head!
Regarding photo dilemma – you’re pressure of completing projects is exactly why I started http://www.memorieswow.com. The need to delegate photo projects!
Thanks for the morning giggle!
Mary
Wish I could outsource my exercise regime, but alas, I think I have to do that all myself. Sigh.
Number 1 – wow! Good job on getting that project outsourced!
Number 2 – I suck in French, and my son, who is in 4 year old kindergarten, learns French and English – we’re at about the same level now! Uh-oh – I sense trouble in the future, as in, I will NOT be able to help with him homework passed grade 1. Same goes for math, for that matter – my brain stops doing math harder than a grade 4 level!